Coital convos: The bottom-ist manifesto

There’s no way you can legitimately believe tops and bottoms are making an equal investment in any given sexual encounter.

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Sex Column: Really, ‘You’ll get over it’

CW: mentions of disease/illness, verbal abuse, and drug usage In my first year at Pomona College, I would sob on every flight from New York City to Claremont. Each minute that passed ripped me further and further away from someone who I felt I could not exist without. Three years

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Sex Column: How I Stopped Caring About Not Caring

From the end of freshman year of college through the beginning of sophomore year, I hooked up with the same boy a handful of times. He cut things off abruptly, texting me that he wanted to stop hooking up since he was worried it would “complicate” our (nonexistent) friendship. I

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Sex Column: That Time I Took Sex Advice … From Cosmo

It’s safe to say that Cosmopolitan is not my go-to for sex advice (the magazine, not the cocktail, although both result in regret when over-consumed). Ever since the infamous “#DonutGate” of 2003, Cosmo and its ridiculous, sometimes dangerous, sex tips have been the butt of many jokes, my personal favorite

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