As most of us have figured out by now, sex in weird places is almost inevitable for those of us who have chosen the hoe life. A lot of times, it's out of necessity. Maybe your roommate insists that they need to do homework on a Saturday night; maybe your dorm is just
Tag: Sexuality
Pushing the Limits
Let’s talk about pushy boys. We all know one. Boys who are used to always getting what they want. Boys who will whine and whine until they either have their way or die of old age. I don’t have much to say about it, honestly. As much as I wish
STIgma
During finals week of last semester, I was late on papers for two of my classes—but not my period. The sun was shining, my new IUD was working, and I was looking forward to going home and making sweet, condom-less love to my long-distance boyfriend. We had agreed that we wouldn’t
How Not to Write About Sex
Dear readers of TSL’s sex column, Writers often talk about how difficult it is to create a good sex scene. Drawing up sex can be so difficult that there’s even an award for “Bad Sex in Fiction” published every year by The Literary Review, and
Hot 4 Teacher
Dear readers of TSL’s sex column, I, Humpfree Blowhard, present the following for your consideration: Pomona College’s Faculty Handbook states that “romantic or sexual relationships” between students and professors “potentially violate the integrity of the student-teacher relationship … a relationship in which objectivity and trust are essential…” To me, the
Sexmusik II: The Electric Boogaloo
Hey, readers of TSL’s sex column. This week, I, Humpfree Blowhard, decided to do a collaboration with TSL’s music columnist, Gage “Chief Queef” Taylor. We’ve decided to put together a list of “bangers” for y’all to enjoy. Chief Queef: Ay. Bang to these tracks. Boots: “Dust” (self-released) CQ: You know
Upland’s Toy Box: Titillating Times or a Blast From the Past?
Dear sex column readers, I offer this article as a way of introducing myself, Humpfree Blowhard. From here on out, I’ll share this space with last semester’s columnist, C. Frisky. I’ll be focusing on sex culture in and around Claremont. This past Saturday, my partner and I decided to visit
Columnists C. Frisky and Dan Brown Sit Down to Discuss Depictions of Sex in Movies
TSL‘s film and sex columnists, Daniel Brown PO ’15 and C. Frisky, talked this week about sex and its role and portrayal in films. They compiled the highlights of their conversation and have shared them here, touching on different techniques for depicting sex, the distinction between art and porn, and
Choke Me Tighter: A BDSM Beginner’s Guide
“Choke me tighter” was never something I thought I would hear, particularly in a sexual context. After a succession of particularly kinky partners, however, it doesn’t seem out of the ordinary at all. In fact, it’s exciting. With proper communication and safety guidelines, incorporating BDSM—bondage, discipline, sadism, or masochism—or kinks
Screw School, Let’s Screw Each Other Instead!
Ok, I’ll admit it: I’m a little jealous that the article written by Lexie Kelly Wainwright PO ’15 last week, “Athletes Should Reconsider Entitled Dialogue,” managed to rile up the student body more than my sex advice column did. Even if people are getting upset in the ensuing 5C athlete-versus-non-athlete-and-greater-sports-culture