On Casual Sex and Intimacy

There was a point in my college career when I thought I had mastered the art of casual sex. 

A couple nights a week, my 'friend with benefits' would come over. We would get stoned, eat cop...

Three Isn't Always A Crowd

Dearest readers, you were probably looking forward to an article about consent this week, considering that I concluded last week’s column with a promise to discuss consent and the issues ...

Choke Me Tighter: A BDSM Beginner's Guide

“Choke me tighter” was never something I thought I would hear, particularly in a sexual context. 

After a succession of particularly kinky partners, however, it doesn’t seem out of the o...

Getting Down in Dorms

Just before the first time I had sex in someone else’s dorm room, I was hanging out with some friends when I received a text message that read, “hey. do you want to come over and watch a movie...

Sext Me

“I’ll send u a dick pic if u show me ur boobs.” 

At fourteen, this was a shocking and hilarious text message to receive. My best friend and I giggled for a while before deciding that the b...

Debunking the Cougar Myth

When I was 15, I went to a New Year's Eve party and kissed the cutest boy there when the clock struck midnight. He had blonde hair that swooshed to the side and, if I remember correctly, he was ...

This Is Your Brain On Sex

Whether you're in a happy and committed relationship, you’re hoping to get lucky tonight, or your only plans involve Tumblr, your bed, and a bottle of wine, you can't ignore ...

Getting Comfy With Pillow Talk

“So … what kind of porn do you like?” 

I knew that it was a stupid question, but I was at a loss. I had just finished having sex with someone I l...

Let Go of Sex Labels

My dear readers,

As the semester comes to a close, so does my college experience and time writing to you as C. Frisky. Ov...